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I gave my wife 3 talak but i have mental issue

LUS QuestionsCategory: ZakahI gave my wife 3 talak but i have mental issue
Ibrahim Khair asked 2 years ago

Assalamu alikum
I have mental health issues and I have given my wife 3 TALAQ in the brink of emotional madness (fight or flight situation). Pls let me know what’s my current position of my marriage.

My name is Ibrahim Khair, 42 male, bangladeshi by birth but living in Australia for more then 25 years.

I have two sons age 10 and 12, my wife been brought up in bangladesh village and she has high worldly ambition without brain or decipline also my mother in law has a high influence on her in worldy matters.

I have been brought up in a lower middle-class highly toxic household where my father raised voice used all sorts of  degrading language almost everyday, beats my mother and us. He used fear tactics to control us.

I have been suffering from mental health like inferior complexities, social anxiety, stress, obsessive compelsive disorder, clinical depression and attention deficit hyperactive disorders (ADHD). I had short tolerance and socially  awkward person, I was arrested twice for fighting also has many other motor vehicles related incidents. I tried to complete my study many times but failed miserability. <span;>I could not regulate my emotions at all. I was diagnosed by professionals and given high power medications for around 12 years.

Although my mental health improved a bit with age and high power medications but I get into verbal alterations when emotions are involved even this days. I find it hard to work in a tem environment.

I have given my wife 3 TALAQ in the brink of emotional madness (fight or flight situation). Also my understanding was when I give talaq once then decides to reconcile that wipes out that talaq, if I want to divorce her later in life then I have to go through complete 3 talaq. This misunderstanding occurred from a short conversation with an alem long time ago.